online dating [censored].


The guy I met online 4 months ago, I just found on another dating site. Though nothing was said and set in stone that we were exclusive and we havent met in person yet, I was a little suprised to see him there and what he wrote on his profile. Some things are quite a bit different on his new profile than from the site I met him on. He took his profile down from the site we met on about a month after we started emailing. I took mine down for a while too, then put it back up. I asked him why he took his down and he said too many weird people were emaling him and he thought it was better to just take his profile down and avoid them. He was aware mine was still up.

Ok lesson #1 in online dating or pen pals. Just because you bare your soul and share your deepest thoughts and it even seems reciprocated does not mean your exclusive, and that the other party is more than likely chatting it up with other people.

Oh my.... I don't know a thing about dating. At all.

How on earth do people do this after being out of the game for so long?

Im embarassed.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.