You say you are going to back off but you keep rushing in. Looks like one decent interaction and you go in full force. Then you have a bad interaction and you swear you are going to back off like you said before.
If it isn't about your son, no discussions right now. If he wants furniture he needs to handle that by either buying some or by asking you. Quit trying to save him, he needs to handle this in order to grow up.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory