I've said all along, you're capable of much more than I am. But I'm still rooting for you!! Don't let my lack of ability discourage you.
Yes, the topic should be his. On the trip out of town when I was acting in a way he "approved" of, he chose to share intimately about his job change decisions (ie, this one pays more, that one is further away, this guy would be reporting to him and he was a slouch, that person would now be his boss, etc.) THAT was HIS choice. That's what he defined as intimate conversation.
I'm just asking, is that it? Are my expectations too high? I could easily see him having this same conversation with any of our friends. Is this just a boy/girl thing? I'm just trying to connect that conversation somehow to my ultimately wanting to have sex with him again....
