Totally agree with you, 25. I'm not and will not back out of my plans now. I have to try. One way or another, our Father's Will be done.

UPDATE
Friday evening I asked my wife about Memorial Day Monday (both of our are off). I suggested splitting the day to spend time with our son, and she immediately said "Not until you sign the documents."

"That's how you're doing this? Really?", I responded.

She then said, "I'll think about it."

Fast forward to today, when she came to fetch our son from my place, I asked again. Again she said that I need to sign the documents first.

Now, besides what I've typed here today, I wish our conversation was documented either by text/email, because I could use it as further proof of her NOT co-parenting with me, as well as her continued sense of entitlement.

I'm thinking of sending her a text to clarify tomorrow's plan and to get it on record. We never did discuss when I'd pick our son up (though why I suggested "half day", I assumed it would be noon), so I was thinking sending this:

"Since you had no intentions of doing a half day for E, I would like to come at 3:30pm to pick him up instead."

What do you think?


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
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I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
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