I've been doing well, but have been down the last couple of days. XW has flown to New York to visit her parents. I'm not certain, but I assume that she took OM with her. Right before she went nuts, we had planned to go and then all Hell broke loose. I know that it shouldn't bother me, but it does. Guess I still need to work on detaching more.
I'm wondering though. Do people going through MLC, tend to hide the OP or flaunt them?
The communication between XW and I has increased a little bit over the past few weeks, but she is still obviously messed up. I got this one from her a few days ago:
XW: If you bring S17 on Friday, June 1st, I will bring him back on Friday, June 15th so you have him for the entire Father's Day weekend. You can bring him anytime after 2. I should be done at the dentist by then. I can text if I get home sooner...probably won't be able to talk.
Me: I'll let you know.
XW: Ok. Thanks!
Ten minutes later:
XW: Also, you could bring him earlier in the week if that works better for you. I will be back on Tuesday.
ME: Ok.
Just sharing/venting/journaling.
Think I may want to write a book about this mess someday.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
You can bring him anytime after 2. I should be done at the dentist by then. I can text if I get home sooner...probably won't be able to talk.