My feral cat continues to eat the food, act strange, and proceed down the big D path. I feel many of our spouses are the same. Following that script, unwilling and unable to take a step back and see what is happening.
So we must let them walk their path. And if keeping the road home paved and smooth is in our hearts, then we do it. And maybe someday our feral cats will all be happy domesticated cats. Or maybe they get run over by cars while they are out there in the wild. We certainly have no control over them!
I hope your BBQ went well!
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!