You feel what you do because of the thoughts that you think. You can change your thoughts and thus how you feel. It depends on whether you want to be bitter and angry for the rest of your life. You have more control over that than you think.
You never had any guarantees in the first place.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.