thanks brit and ng, what i'm also noticing how i changing my feelings towards him. at first, i told him i loved him, "warts and all" since no one is perfect.
what i'm noticing it that the warts are GROWING! the little warts of: selfishness in our path for the future
double standard with regard to our feelings for the other's family members
controling behavior with respect to getting his way
false pride and inability to apologize or be wrong
lack of gratitude for all i've done for not only him, but his kids and family
stubbornness when it comes to making up after disagreements
stinginess unless it's something he really wants
impatience with others because he feels superior
etc., etc., etc.
the "warts" are becoming walnuts! as time goes on, i'm afraid i'll look at him and he'll be covered with watermelons...!
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
