I've been working hard on learning about boundaries, detaching myself from my H's actions and emotions, and I feel it's gotten me to a point where actually having a face to face convo is no harder than email for me. I'm curious what he'll say, I can listen and not react, I keep my power over my responses. It's taken a lot of practice, and I'm not always good at it.
But I had a difficult conversation with work, a performance review, and it worked for me in that situation too.
Keep doing what you're doing WofPa.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
