Do others feel like I do that at some point the WAS is going to realize what s/he is losing but by that time it will be too late?
I think the best thing to focus on is making things good for you, working on yourself and then if H comes out of the fog, great-if not, great.
And you may decide he's not what you want at that point.
That's why keeping the focus on you is so important.
You know for certain that the one person who will definitely be around at the end of this road is you, and if you're not OK with that person, then you're screwed.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
