Nb1712 thank you for responding. Peopleon this board, me included, really want to help you. You probably have plenty of people alreadywho will tell you, man that suxx, you do not deserve this, she is wrong. We can tell you that too but as you can see that gets you nowhere.

If it sounded like attacking you im sorry, but i dont know you and am trying to ask the questions that your specific words may prompt.

The goal will be for you to have self confidence and peace independent of the plate of cr@p she handed you.

Learn to detach your emotions from her actions. Find ways toget a life-can you get away for a night or two? What do you do to manage your stress and anger to take care of you?

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.