Hey there NB! Adinva has provided you with some excellent information and things for you to consider and contemplate. She is wise beyond her years so think about what she has posted to you and see if you can't formulate a response that will help guide your thinking.
There is not much more for me to add at this time other than to say that you have come to the right place. We will help you help yourself. Tell us what you need and we will do our best to steer you in the right direction.
Wishing you all the best!
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