What spouse wants to live by themselves within a marriage? How would someone feel if months would go by without being intimate with their spouse? How should someone feel if their spouse made sure others had dinner, but had other things to do when they weren't around? How should someone feel when they would rather spend the night at their parents with D that come home to their spouse?
I truly see where you are going with this. I do. But there are so many things that are not healthy for a M that, even though I was willing to work on, it was either her way or no way.
You are right. I have definitely criticized her for some of these things. But how can a M work when these things are common. They say that the number one thing that breaks down a marriage is communication. All I was fighting for was to spend more time with my wife so this wouldn't happen. But I got beaten down for wanting more time with my W.
The way I looked at it.... I hated the fact that I spent more time with people I work with than my family.
