You might have misunderstood my question. You sound like counseling would really help you. IC, not MC. For you.

When that was suggested, you brushed it off: "As far as counseling...I am not sure."

Why?

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.