Originally Posted By: Hopingtomakeit
One More insight.

I have been pushing her to make some choice and talk about this.


WHY are you pushing her to choose? You want a divorce? You want to corner her and hope she's going to back down? That's a bluff you should NOT make. BACK OFF...



If she wants the D lets tell the kids and talk about the finance stuff. I am hoping she will change her mind but maybe im not giving her the space she needs to work this out in her head.


BINGO!! you are NOT giving her time or space or making changes in YOU to show her what she's losing...you are pressing her to make it or break it and she's not up for "making it' right now.

So is it all or nothing for you? if that is what you push for, Get ready for the big nothing...



M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change