Make sure you decide NOTHING then and there, but take her words and promise to think about them carefully. Tell her you need time to process what she said.
Decide nothing without sleeping on it and post about it if you are comfortable doing so.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016