Problem with this is I can answer that question, but nobody understands this. She thought she wanted to be married. But when it came down to it, she didn't want to let anybody that far into her life. That is what I am having a problem with. Why would she do this when she knew how devestating it would be when she got too close? Her friends and family have told me that this is how she is. When things get too close, she runs. The only way to get answers is from her. All of this has come after the fact.
