Saddle up with a shark of a lawyer, document all the time you are the primary parent... Show her that you a strong and will not be walked over, and if she wants a divorce, it will be ugly, and it will all be on her head.

You need to throw a hiccup in her plans.

Me: 37 W:33
S: 2
M: 9/5/09
Suspected: 1/7/12
Confirmed: 2/10/12
Served: 3/29/12
W moved out 3/30/12
First court 5/17/12
HELP!