Thanks for the suggestion, I will try to get that ASAP. I have been reading alot lately.
As far as counseling... I am not sure. I know it takes time, but I am struggling each day to just wake up and my W views our whole situation as just a bad R that is no big deal to end. It's almost like she views it as if she was never married or that ending a M is no big deal. Just move on.???