Hey Zig, Sorry to hear that you are having trouble with H over your son's health.
If it's any comfort at all, I can say that it does seem to be another part of the script.
My H stopped taking his anti-epilepsy medication (which, coincidentally, is used to treat bipolar disorder!) as soon as he went mlc.
I was always the one who wanted him to continue taking it when he blamed it for making him feel depressed (oh, why didn't I put 2 and 2 together back in those early days of obvious discord???).
H has also refused to wear a mouth-guard now that he's playing football and has encouraged S13 not to wear one for sports either. He knows that I think this is dangerous. If I disagree with him over this, he gets more entrenched in his position.
So, anything H can do to resist what he sees as my attempts to control him or the kids, he will do. In a big way. And stopping medication is one of these things.
Doesn't help your sitch, I know, but just thought I'd share.
