why was it hard for her to be able to make decisions when she was with you? were you critical of her decisions? did the two of you want different things?
that's what it sounds like. she's telling you something. take time to think about how she got to this place.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing