Last Resort Technique - Can I correct problems?

[LostIn407]

I am really confused. Impatient. Etc. However, I am have gone dark with the W.

Here is something I can't get out of my mind:

When I found out about it, I was determined to win her back, away from the OM. After a couple of weeks, I couldn't do it. While I thought I was making progress, it hurt knowing she was still with him.

After telling her that I couldn't handle her being with the OM and didn't want to speak with her until they were over, she responded with "What happened to the man that told me he was going to win out in the end?". I said it just hurt too much. Since that talk, our conversations have been scarce.

Did I miss an opening? Should I have competed with the OM? Is it too late to compete with the OM since I did the LRT?

I think this deadline is going to come with no talk with the W, which will lead to me filing for D.

Maybe I am an idiot, but I think if I date my wife, I will be able to show her what she has and she will cut it off with the OM. I think if I "date" my wife again, there is a 80% - 90% of R.