As stressful as it was to wait so long for the feedback, it does appear to be useful. And I think it's a good sign that one of the things that he seems to want you to improve on, is something that you're already aware of and working on. So no matter what, being less reactive will help you with all of your relationships. Maybe H will change his mind and maybe not, but you will come out of this a better, stronger person.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13