Ok one last thing fir now, I asked in an earlier post if I should send some cute pics/ videos of the kids to H with just a simple ' cute thing S did today'

But wonder if this will be looked at as more pressure or more guilt for the guilt he already feels for being so far from the kids for so long.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home