I just want to be friends...Pt2

[zig]

hi YC - was just checking in this morning to see how you were doing.
and then read your post.

you're not arguing with me at all. i do find it really odd that your mom is behaving like that - and that she met your h last year. did she explain what she is trying to do? or why she is doing it like that?

maybe there are things going on behind the scenes that don't make much sense to you from where you're standing, that you can't do anything about? i don't know.

or is this a time to set boundaries for yourself and your mom?

i'm glad you kept yourself busy - good for you! keep doing that.

the only thing i can offer right now, is that you'll drive yourself crazy with the why's, what's and where's of this if you focus on it too much.

i remember our first conversations months ago, where you talked a lot about being in a peaceful place and letting go of stuff. maybe you could go back and read those posts and get yourself centered. letting go of the current issue allows for solutions to appear in a different unexpected way. (i'm going to take my own advice here today, too),

keep focusing on other things - it will pan out eventually, one way or another

stay peaceful

zig