so after all my debating yesterday about how to go to the parade - unexpected move on h's part.

he called a few minutes ago, and asked what time the parade was (i'd texted it to him last night) i just replied noon. he asked if i was planning to go, and I said actually yes and his response was well why don't you pick up s from his class and i'll meet you there!!

most most unexpected.

of course i can't help thinking (nasty parson that i am), that it works out great for him - he's already on that side of town and if he had to come pick s up, it would be much more inconvenient for him.

oh well - whatever - a bit doormatty today, but who cares. i'm doing it for son.

i'm just going to thank him very sweetly for offering to take s for the afternoon so i can work (7 shawls need to be ready for wed - YAY) and go on my way.

oddly - i don't exactly want to hang out at the parade with him - just with s. funny how things shift. these days i'm not particularly eager to be around him much - probably has to do with all the splitting going on.


me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"