Quiet acceptance of what is doesn't mean you allow yourself or others to be hurt.
Would H have a visit with the prescriber to talk about his concerns?
(In my world) Without that S would continue on his regimen. Of course you have no idea what happens when he's with H, so that opens a whole new kettle of fish.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss