I can do that. I will do that- The people here have inspired me to see situations, painful as they may be, for what they really are and not with blinders on.
When I confronted H with the unmistakable proof of his A, after weeks of him denying that there was anyone else, I was shocked at how calm I was. He even remarked on it later that he was surprised that I was so calm. He had the temerity to tell me he didn't tell me about his "friendship" as he called it because he didn't want to hurt me.