I'm sorry. I read your response when I was real busy earlier and I never got back. I will definitely not rush into any decisions. Bottom line, I don't believe in divorce and it will come down to the 2 years for this to be over if that is what she decides.
I keep going back and forth between anger, betrayal, devestation, and flat out disbelief that all this is happening.
Sometimes it seems that she is perfectly fine with this taking so long because she know I'll be here if she decides in the future this is what she wants. And she fully knows I would take her back with out blinking an eye.