1702, you should file.... keep track of all time your wife was out leaving you to parent. Document everything, I mean everything, my lawyer is a shark, will be paying for this for the rest of my life.
Filing first will throw a wrench in her plans, but you have to be physically and emotionally stable. Get a calendar document all time spent with daughter. Put a spreadsheet together of monthly expenses, find your tax returns the last 3 years pay stubs for 3 months, remove all financial documents deeds titles, you need to blind side her with your total preparedness. That might make her realize you're not the man she thought.
Me: 37 W:33 S: 2 M: 9/5/09 Suspected: 1/7/12 Confirmed: 2/10/12 Served: 3/29/12 W moved out 3/30/12 First court 5/17/12 HELP!