Have the two of you discussed a 50/50 agreement? I can only see this ending one way if you use your child as a tug of war rope and that is...badly.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER