Still Afloat and moving Forward

[canadianMrs.]

BeingMe I felt like your H and mine are one in the same, M and post bomb. We also had a relationship like how yours is now. The problem with ours is we did decide to try to work on things. Even though I had some big doubts how I could ever trust or let him touch me again, I was gave it a 100%. Again he lied and cheated. I can no longer be friendly with him, and I have fully detached. No more staying at my house etc, no talking, no going out for lunches etc. I wish it didn't have to be this way but I had to stand up for myself. You are smart not to trust H and like mine they don't really know how to be a real friend or H. I wish I (like you( had realizd this before round 2. You come across as a very smart/strong woman. Thank you for sharing.