caveat emptor - you should know I'm no expert, and nowhere near done in my sitch. I'm just repeating to you things I've learned from reading these boards obsessively since last September. And sometimes it's easier for us to apply what we've learned, to other people's situations, than it is to our own. We are the blind helping the blind. Look for the veterans thread that was posted a while back in newcomers to get more info about who are veterans here and who are just in the same boat with you.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.