Zig,

They did the exact same thing last year, only last year my mother didn't tell me a thing. I found out via my H's email! Days passed, and I just waited, and there was nothing forthcoming. I then called her and really let her have it.

The only reason she told me this year that they were meeting for dinner was because I yelled like there was no tomorrow at her last year. I questioned her honesty, her loyalty, her support.

This is what is really bothering me. She knows very well how I feel.

I find it very insensitive of her, VERY, to not say anything. Would a friend do that?

Boy - she has another thing coming.

Sorry, I can't let this one go. I've let a lot go over the last few years, but my mother's behaviour now is unacceptable to me.