"there are traumas from her childhood that she does not want brought up"

Like what?

How often do you see your son now? Is it 50/50?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER