She will do no therapy what so ever... her mother believes there are traumas from her childhood that she does not want brought up... she is not giving me the gift of time... she is steamrolling this as fast as possible...

If I prevent the divorce, then yes one in the same, protecting my rights as a father will upset my wife, I can not afford to lose any more time with him...

Me: 37 W:33
S: 2
M: 9/5/09
Suspected: 1/7/12
Confirmed: 2/10/12
Served: 3/29/12
W moved out 3/30/12
First court 5/17/12
HELP!