but try to let go of it - it will give you more peace of mind - you will know what you need to know when it's time to know it.
maybe your mom is processing what took place, and maybe nothing did. do you think you maybe be having some expectations that are making you anxious?
The whole thing makes me want to distance myself from them.
you're feeling a bit defensive, maybe? could you try to see it slightly differently - that your h does have his own relationship with them that is separate from yours?
i can't imagine how difficult this is for you--i know that if my h was having dinner with my parents, i would be losing it majorly.
don't feel isolated -there could be a host of other reasons why she hasn't called yet. you might be surprised that it is something really trivial that came up and she was too busy to call
could you just call your mom? or do you feel that you have to wait until she calls you?
remember - no expectations, then you won't feel disappointed
(((( )))) zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
