Be brave, listen to what he has to say, and remember that you don't have to answer in the moment. You can just listen to him and respond later when you have a chance for it to sink in.

Read DR, and find the 37 tips that are usually posted to newcomers shortly after they arrive here.

Do you know what went wrong in your marriage? Is there anything that you can look at as a needed wake-up call to improve yourself for your own benefit?

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.