i'm good. i'm fine. more than fine.

[MrBond]

The fact that you mentioned calling another guy and then you started feeling better.

I totally understand the feeling of worthlessness that we feel when our spouse's leave us. The reason for GALing is so that the LBS feels confident and strong in themselves without having to rely on someone else to make them feel good. If you don't do that, you will find yourself in the same situation with someone else.

If you can honestly say that you're fine without someone in your life and have increased your self worth, then you're ready for going out with others. Just MHO.