Needing some guidance... 3

[needgrace]

hi jks,

i saw where you posted on brit's thread that you feel like you are starting over again. i am sorry you are in so much pain.

i felt that way too... my W said at one point that she wanted to work on things and was confident we would be able to... this was before OW and it lasted 3 weeks until she started seeing OW..

i felt like i was back at the beginning and i got scared.. but i rebounded much, much quicker than before. what i had learned here and by reading and working on me helped me recover quicker.

there are still moments when i feel like i am back at the start... but they are fewer and shorter

i hope that is the same for you. ((( )))