so what made me nervous was the fact that i have been w/ H for 12 yrs. after M, i cut off a lot of those friendships. i only kept the guy friends that i was comfortable introducing H to and including him in those interactions.
this phone call was to someone H does not know. and i think you're right.. it is closing the door on my M in a way.
the phone call was just a phone call. no more. no less. out of my comfort zone because i always feel so awkward and shy. i am truly a dork. lol. and it was something i definitely would not have done in my M.
I totally get this^^^. My w has been out of my house for 9 months and the last I heard from her as far as where we stand was that she wanted to D.
Recently I became friendly with another woman and I felt guilty for talking to her because I am currently married. I am still trying to sort out why I feel this way. Maybe it is as you've said that it is closing the door some more but on the other hand I feel like our lives must go on.
