Is it too late?

[LostIn407]

I have nothing else to sleep on right now as our bedroom set is in her apartment. Part of my GAL is to re-furnish my bedroom.

Neither one of us can afford a divorce lawyer and we have discussed it before. I doubt she will fight me as she doesn't have much ground to stand on. The state I live in rarely awards alimony for marriages under 10 years. Our visitation agreement gives me the kids more than her. My state prefers joint-custody. I believe I have an agreement that she will agree to. I will go for full parental responsibility as I already pay for all the expenses for the children (day care, activities, etc). I will show the judge the OM's past and present criminal record. I will show the judge the school attendance log where the kids do not attend school on her assigned days.

She has mentioned that she didn't want kids right away when we married. She was shown that she would rather have her mother watch the kids on her assigned visitation days so she can spend the day with the OM. I think this would give her the "out" she is looking for.

However, I never thought she would go outside the M so I could be wrong again.

Financially we are in agreement. She has her account, I have mine. She is aware that I will no longer assist her financially.