No I don't read it as needing validation but that you are unable to LET GO with out having some sort of EXPECTATION or control mechanism.

Maybe this is a step in that direction.

Maybe you need some reason to LET GO.

I think that the RV gave you some sort of false EXPECTATIONS.
I wish it were that easy, but this is really hard stuff.

What does "DONE" look like?

Me-70, D37,S36