The way I see it I have to some how tease out the true feelings I have for my W from what is expected of us as a married couple. I mean Western society looks at a married couple as a stable reproductive unit, which is dependent on sex. Unless both spouses agree that they will seek additonal sexual partners, i.e. open marriage...acquiring a lover without such a mutual agreement, is in my mind, a breach of "contract".
A violation of which I would agree would be terms for for your discord. The deeper side?
This is not just about f@cking is it?
Not to most of us anyway.
What is it for you? What is the mystery for you?
Originally Posted By: horse
Would I not be a fool if I trusted her again without a full apology and a promise that she would never do such a thing again?
you would be a fool only if you accepted her back without believing it in whatever form it comes.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
