Get legal advice and divorce her. Seriously stop letting her treat you like a doormat. She is not the woman you married to, stop asking her question's and hoping she'll get better.
I agree with the legal advice.
The rest is victim bullsh!t. Sorry.
You are a doormat of you think you are a doormat.
You will think you are a doormat if you let the actions and/or inaction of your spouse dictate who you are and what you believe.
Or if someone calls you a doormat and you believe it.
She has a right to divorce you. You can't stop that.
When you said your vows did you say "I will love and honor you all the days of my life
Until you behave badly then I will run away"?
I have a different view of what is strong and it comes from making your own choices
Not having them made for you in reaction to what your W is doing right now.
Yes do protect yourself with boundaries economically, legally, fiancially and especially emotionally.
What you must figure out quickly is what you are prepared to do for your M and yourself if you are not assured it can be saved.
What is the answer for you?
Any man can run away and call it courage or not allowing her to treat you whatever way
Real courage is standing your ground regardless of what your W is choosing.
Making YOUR choice. Not one that is made for you.
You decide.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
