In the case of my H he avoids his family, wants nothing to do with friends, doesn't even enjoy the same activities anymore unless OW is in the picture. I just dont get it. H even touches me every morning before he leaves for work. I don't know why but be does it like clockwork. My DB coach says it is because he is still emotionally connected to me but doesn't want to admit it. My counselor says he is running and that nothing eases emotional pain like a new relationship. He said it is better than cocaine or heroin. Scary stuff. Kind of depressing to know what we are dealing with is that addicting.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"