Hello confused, welcome to the board. I think you'll find a lot of support here. It's a great place to be for such a lousy reason.
Have you read DR? If not, you should read it ASAP.
You're at the point now where you know what's going on with the OM. There's probably no benefit in checking the cell phone logs anymore. It'll only make you miserable at this point and it's not going to change anything.
What do you want at this point? Do you not want a D? Is it worth the financial gamble to wait it out for you?
LRT and 180s are still possible even if you're in the same house. In fact, your 180s may be more noticeable.
Post often with short posts. You're on moderation now so it will take awhile for your posts to show up.
