Wow - D13 needs a "real" boyfriend? LOL - I had crushes at that age - but I also still played with Barbies. Hopefully she won't get a boyfriend - your troubles would REALLY be starting then!
And don't feel bad about not calling XW's boyfriend by name. I called OW "maggot" - yep - even to the kids - I admit - that was not a good thing. Funny thing - they call her that too. Yep - I certainly did some things wrong.