Yes, Endeavor. But if you read the Language of Emotions - there's a middle ground between expressing and repressing/suppressing -sounds to me like May has taken both those paths, but not the one in the middle.
People have misinterpreted what I've been saying - they think I'm saying express the anger; I'm not. I'm saying feel it. In the book, she describes what it's like to do this within your OWN boundary (not toward other people and not swallowing it yourself).
It's powerful.
The anger is there for May. It exists. Let's acknowledge it. I don't know that she's addressing sadness and pain and fear in IC and MC. It doesn't matter. What's she's not doing is feeling the emotions and it's bottling up. And now it's apathy, which is not so desireable.
May, despite what anyone tells you HAVE your emotions. Let THEM (not us) be your guides in your situation; it takes a little getting used to but once you practice this and listen to your own inner wisdom and feel your feelings, you will learn to trust yourself, to take care of yourself, to not have your boundaries violated, to endure other's bad behavior and still make decisions from a safe, calm, adult space.
This is necessary work to growing up - especially so for the sake of our children. It's calling for you-
