Nope, you're not crazy. Im beginning to think this is an epidemic or something. I don't know how they get this script in their heads but they sure do!
My Xh and I did have problems, which were the problems that every couple has when you have work, kids, financial troubles and are two ships passing in the night. XH is also a big conflict avoider which did nothing but create more conflict when he got to his boiling point. I really can't believe the change in him over the last several years.
I just don't get it. I get how couples get to the point of feeling the way they do, but what I dont get is why they don't want to work on the relationship and just want to throw it away.
